My Love Letter

I used to write about this ideal I held about relationships. I always knew, in my hearts of hearts, that there was a relationship based on complete love, attraction, and utter trust. I always knew that within that relationship all boundaries and limitations would disappear and both people could be truly who they were born to be.

I used to write about it, I used to think about it all the time.

And all the writing and all the thinking was for none because when I met you I understood that there are times when words and thoughts are utterly inadequate to describe the beauty at hand.

What we have is so much bigger and better and different than anything I ever thought or imagined.

Because of you I have learned that TRUE LOVE is as much about loving you as it is about loving myself.

Because of you I learned not only to trust myself again, I learned to completely trust another human being for the very first time.

You show me there is beauty in every detail, joy in every moment and love in every second.

Being together, I have learned that you being right does not mean that I am wrong.

Being together, I have become strong enough to face any task, brave enough to fight any battle, and I will do so knowing that we stand together, forever. We are one.

You and I defy conventional wisdom, we break all their rules, and we shatter all notions by the pure and genuine sincerity of who we are as individuals, part of this couple.

You and I are living the life we are meant to live. A life of compassion, passion, respect and devotion, with days filled with laughter and talk; the nights wrapped in comfort and safety.

I used to write about this ideal relationship that I knew truly did exist.

Today and for the last 7 years, I stopped writing the words, and have been living my ideal…

Happy Anniversary to you and me…

Happy Anniversary to us.

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Sven

 

I think the most common misperception is that somehow we are all part of this “cult,” this secret society. We’re really not. We are just like everybody else. I laugh when people come up to me and say “You know my uncle is one too, maybe you know him?” We DO NOT all know each other. There is no monthly newsletter.

The other one I personally get a kick out of is when people are convinced we want to convert them…like we have some sort of quota to meet. I usually tell them I’ve already met my quota and gotten my toaster oven.

Truth is: we’re everybody. We are just like you and your neighbors. As a matter of fact, your neighbor might be one of us! We are lawyers, firefighters, professors, scientists. Some of us are housewives, gardeners, politicians. We are Hispanic, Caucasian, and Asian. Men and Women alike; we are no different. We don’t aim to be different, we don’t think we are different and we do not want to be different. We are, continue to be, and always will want to be equal to everybody.

I put my pants on one leg at the time, just like you do. In our household we divide household chores equally; my other half does the gardening because frankly: I don’t have a green thumb.

We don’t seek out children. We are not contiguous. I am not attracted to chickens, goats, dogs or horses. I lead a respectable life and am a moral person and good citizen. Just like you.

I believe in live and let live.

My name is Sven Paardekooper and I am a homosexual.

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Howdy y’all.

So how’s your week being going? We’re doing well down here in Texas! Had a visit to the ER, some spinal stimulator implants. You know: run of the mill kinda stuff.

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Howdy folks,

How’s 2012 been treating y’all so far? Have to say that other than a random moment here and there, this year has been fantastic. Continue reading »

 

Lucy, I am HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Can you believe this freaking year is over? WTF happened? I swear it was only yesterday I was in my thirties…young, desirable to advertisers, a demographic that mattered. Now I am in my 40’s, my IPAD is dead and I am hitting gay middle age.

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Well,

Let’s see if I can muster up the enthusiasm about the rest of our trip. Heaven knows these last 10 days have been trying. You know it’s bad when I crave snowballs, ding dongs AND wine.

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Lucy, I am HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Did y’all miss me? I missed you…really I did. I arrived back in Texas this past Friday after a 3 week tour of Europe. Now I know what Cher feels like on her tours…NOT.

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The plane the plane the plane!

THE PLANE is leaving for PARIS tomorrow! I am packed, washed, prepared and good to go! My plane takes off at 11 am and 12 “short” hours later I’ll be hugging my man at CDG airport.

We will spend a week in Paris, celebrate my 40th birthday and then take the train to London. A week in London to see friends we made online, sightseeing and George gets to show me our new home! After that one more week in Plymouth with our friend Ann and I fly back, solo, on October 14th.

The laptop is staying at home, I’ll have George’s old IPhone to use hopefully so I can at least post pictures on Facebook but more than anything these next three weeks are for me and George. In other words: I’ll be silent on the internet!

I wish you all well, stay out of trouble and the next time you’ll hear from me will be in October!

Bonjour!

Sven

 

Happy Tuesday y’all.

I guess I spoke too soon last week when it appeared the dark broiling days of summer were behind us. We’re back in the 100’s again this week. Luckily, come hell or high water, I am leaving for Paris next week where I KNOW it will be cooler than this. One more week…oyve.

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Well, it has happened.

We are BELOW 100. Actually today we never made it to the 90 degree mark. 88. That is 20 degrees cooler than last week. Tonight we are supposed to have lows of 58. Continue reading »

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